Midlife Recreated: At 52, I ditched the “shoulds” and rewrote the script. Now it’s your turn. Let me help you build a life of joy, travel, purpose—and fewer boring expectations. 50 Shades of Should isn’t a crisis—it’s a comeback to Your Dreams!
Let’s go there.
If you’re anything like me, you’ve probably been getting more and more of those messages lately—the “Did you hear?” texts. The “Gone too soon” Facebook posts.
53. 58. 64.And it hits you.What the actual f**k?
Worked their whole life.Busted their ass.Sacrificed vacations, skipped...
Let’s talk man to man—or man to whoever’s reading this (hi, ladies—I see you forwarding this to your husband, brother, or ex who still wears his college hoodie).
Because here's the truth:A lot of men hit 45+ and start feeling like they’ve peaked.Not in a dramatic, cry-on-the-floor way—but in t...
The Art of Allowing over 45 (and Finally Booking the Damn Trip)
Let’s talk about that trip.You know the one.
The once-in-a-lifetime, soul-recharging, Pinterest-board-worthy getaway that’s been living rent-free in your head for the past decade.
Maybe it’s sipping wine in Tuscany.Maybe it’s wand...
Let’s talk about that strange stage of life when the front door stops revolving, the snack drawer actually stays full, and your kid’s laundry no longer multiplies like rabbits on spring break.
Yep. You’re officially in “they’re about to leave for college or finally did” territory.
And while every...
(Because Apparently, You Missed the Funeral)
Let’s talk about something we all secretly suspect but are too tired, polite, or over-scheduled to admit:
You’ve gone missing.No, not your body. That still shows up to work, school drop-offs, the HOA meetings, and the obligatory birthday dinners for pe...
Let’s rip the Band-Aid off, shall we?
You look at your career and think, “This isn’t what I signed up for.”You check your retirement account and think, “Is this a joke?”You tell yourself you should be grateful, but deep down, you’re feeling... done.
Welcome to the moment millions of men and women...
Let’s not sugarcoat it.
If you're over 45, there's a good chance your biggest dream these days is a full night’s sleep without waking up to pee.
But I want to take you back—back to a version of you who used to feel something. The version who thought anything was possible. The version who belie...
Let’s just say it.If you’ve been raising kids for the last 18+ years, you’re basically a miracle worker in yoga pants.You’ve been part personal chef, therapist, Uber driver, tutor, referee, nurse, and the only one in the house who knows where the insurance card is.
But here’s the part no one talk...
Let’s cut through the crap.
You’re a man. Somewhere between 45 and 60. You've followed the rules, paid your dues, and racked up a pretty impressive life resume:
Steady job? ✅
Mortgage? ✅
Grilled meats to perfection in silence while contemplating life? ✅✅
But somewhere along the road, s...
Hey there, rebels with a cause—
This week we’re calling BS on the roles you’ve been playing for decades. You know the ones: The Responsible One. The Peacekeeper. The Overachiever. The One Who “Has It All Together” (but also eats peanut butter out of the jar at 11pm while questioning everything)...
Alright, let’s just go there.
You hit a certain age—let’s say somewhere between "Alexa, turn up the reading lamp" and "Why does my back hurt from sleeping?"—and suddenly, you start filtering your dreams through the judgment lens of everyone else.
You tell a friend you want to start salsa dancin...
Midlife Recreated: At 52, I ditched the “shoulds” and rewrote the script. Now it’s your turn. Let me help you build a life of joy, travel, purpose—and fewer boring expectations. 50 Shades of Should isn’t a crisis—it’s a comeback to Your Dreams!
